Saturday 18 April 2015

'Relief' is what She wants, but will She get it ??

A recent visit to Mahila police Thana which comes under my jurisdiction raised this question in my mind. It so happened that a lady was sitting there in the garden of the Thana campus. I casually asked her that why she is here and if she has given any complain/FIR here. In reply to this,  She started telling me her story,  “I am in great trouble mam. I am married for the past 20 years and have 3 children.  My husband consumes alcohol daily and beats me up. Whatever he earns, he spends on liquor. I work in the houses and thus get some money to feed my children but this money is not enough .  I waited all these years hoping that one day he will change but nothing has happened  so far. My husband is staying in village with his parents but I don’t go there as he beats me up there. Many a time, My inlaws also have tried to intervene but he doesn’t listen to them also. At last I have come to police to get some ‘relief’ . Today I have come with witnesses as asked by the investigating officer of my case. ”. I further asked her what kind of help she wants from police and does she want to send her husband to jail. To this she replied, “ aur kya Karen. Jail me hi theek hai. Main samajh loongi ki wo hai hi nhi”. I further inquired her that what about the money part and what about her children?  She said, “that is the main problem. I am illiterate so can’t earn more. If my husband gives me 5000 Rs. per month, than rest I can earn and take care of my children. ”.

I consoled her and assured her that we will try our best to help her and will update her about the status of her case. But than I started thinking that if police could really help her and provide her ‘relief’????

At most, police may propose chargesheet against her Husband  and  the case it will go to the court. This lady has no money to hire a lawyer to represent her case. And what about the money part? For this, She will have to file one more case for maintenance money separately  and  then court may order her husband to pay some monthly amount depending upon his financial condition. It again depends on her husband whether he gives maintenance money or not and what if he does not pay?
It’s a long process and long battle for her.

Will this illiterate lady having no money and having burden of 3 children will be able to fight through all this?
She has come to police as a last option to seek some ‘relief’ but will she get it?